quinta-feira, 19 de maio de 2011
quinta-feira, 12 de maio de 2011
sexta-feira, 6 de maio de 2011
Alguns casos de bullying que terminaram em tragédia:
Colorado (EUA), 1999
Os estudantes da Columbine High School, Eric Harris, 18 anos, e Dylan Klebold, 17, mataram 12 colegas e um professor e cometeram suicídio em seguida. A história motivou o documentário ‘Tiros em Columbine’, de Michael Moore, que ganhou o Oscar em 2003.
São Paulo, 2003
Edmar Aparecido Freitas, 18 anos, era motivo de zombaria dos colegas de classe desde os sete anos de idade. Em 2003, ele foi ao colégio em que estudou armado com um revólver, atingiu nove pessoas e depois se matou.
Virgínia (EUA), 2007
O estudante coreano Cho Seung-hui, 23 anos, invadiu a universidade de Virgínia Tech, nos Estados Unidos, matou 30 pessoas e se suicidou.
Exemplos de brigas nas escolas (Bullying)
Insultos, apelidos pejorativos e brigas entre crianças e adolescentes podem ser exemplos desse tipo de violência (Bullying).
Crianças e adolescentes têm sofrido e praticado, nas escolas, um tipo de violência que assusta pais e professores: o bullying.
O termo inglês (sem tradução para português) é usado para identificar agressões físicas e psicológicas que provocam nas vítimas um sentimento de humilhação. Entre as agressões verbais, são comuns os comentários negativos sobre a aparência, a família ou o lugar em que a vítima mora.
Mas nem toda forma de ‘ataque’ pode ser considerado bullying, alerta a psicopedagoga Núbia Torres, que desenvolve um programa de prevenção a esse tipo de violência em uma escola particular do Recife.
“Brigas cotidianas, apelidos e arengas são próprios da infância e não caracterizam bullying, necessariamente, porque são ‘brincadeiras’ feitas com qualquer pessoa. O bullying começa quando a agressão acontece com freqüência e é destinada a um alvo específico”, diz a especialista.
De acordo com a psicopedagoga, apesar de ser comum na escola e durante a juventude, esse tipo de violência pode acontecer também entre adultos e em outros ambientes. “Um autor de bullying durante a infância [agressor], se não for cuidado, pode se tornar um adulto que tem essa prática em outros espaços da sociedade, como a universidade e o trabalho”, afirma.
Para que a criança ou o adolescente não agrida outras pessoas, a psicopedagoga Núbia Torres ressalta a importância de um trabalho coletivo. “É necessário observar o autor da agressão e, se for o caso, encaminhar a um tratamento clínico. Mas o trabalho não deve ser só do profissional, mas em conjunto entre o terapeuta, a família e a escola”.
Esse cuidado se estende igualmente às vítimas de bullying. Elas podem desenvolver problemas psicológicos que, em casos extremos, são irreversíveis. Por isso, a família deve estar alerta.
“Os pais devem ficar atentos para observar mudanças comportamentais nos seus filhos. A vítima de bullying, geralmente, apresenta retraimento, tristeza e dificuldade em ir ao local em que sofre a agressão – que, normalmente, é a escola. Ao primeiro sinal provável de bullying, a família deve procurar a escola para que sejam tomadas providências. Não se deve esperar que a agressão aconteça novamente”.
O que fazer para evitar esse tipo de violência
Pais e família
Mantenham um diálogo aberto e constante com os filhos. Assim, eles se sentirão à vontade para contar que foram agredidos.
Estejam atentos a possíveis mudanças comportamentais da criança / adolescente, como retraimento, tristeza ou agressividade.
Observem se seu filho tem resistência para ir à escola. Isso pode acontecer porque ele está sofrendo bullying nesse local.
Se suspeitarem que seus filhos sofram bullying na escola, procurem a unidade de ensino, mas sem alarde, para não inibir a criança ou o adolescente.
Se for necessário, ofereçam à criança ou ao adolescente algum tipo de tratamento psicológico.
Vítima
Fale das agressões a algum adulto em que você confia (pais, avós, professores, vizinhos). Lembre-se que você não está sozinho.
Ignore quem xinga você. Quem fala mal gosta de ver que você fica nervoso e chateado com isso. Se você não se irrita, os agressores ficam entediados e param.Ande acompanhado com um ou mais amigos nos locais em que os agressores normalmente estão. Procure também ficar próximo a algum adulto, como um professor ou algum funcionário da escola. Envolva a maior quantidade possível de pessoas na discussão sobre agressões, desde amigos, colegas de classe até professores e o diretor da escola.
Não xingue nem agrida fisicamente o autor do bullying. Isso só piora a situação.
Bullying no quartel
Em 2000 o Ministério da Defesa (MOD) do Reino unido definiu o bullying como : “... o uso de força física ou abuso de autoridade para intimidar ou vitimar outros, ou ainda para castigar”. Todavia é afirmado que o bullying militar é habitualmente utilizado em investigações para obter informações. Alguns argumentam que tal comportamento deveria ser permitido por causa de um consenso acadêmico generalizado de que os soldados são diferentes dos outros postos. Dos soldados se espera que estejam preparados para arriscarem suas vidas.
Em alguns países, rituais humilhantes entre os recrutas têm sido tolerados e mesmo exaltados como um "ritual de passagem" que constrói o caráter e a resistência; enquanto em outros, o bullying sistemático dos postos inferiores, jovens ou recrutas mais fracos pode na verdade ser encorajado pela política militar, seja tacitamente ou abertamente. Também as forças armadas russas geralmente fazem com que candidatos mais velhos ou mais experientes abusem - com socos e pontapés - dos soldados mais fracos e menos experientes.
Em 2000 o Ministério da Defesa (MOD) do Reino unido definiu o bullying como : “... o uso de força física ou abuso de autoridade para intimidar ou vitimar outros, ou ainda para castigar”. Todavia é afirmado que o bullying militar é habitualmente utilizado em investigações para obter informações. Alguns argumentam que tal comportamento deveria ser permitido por causa de um consenso acadêmico generalizado de que os soldados são diferentes dos outros postos. Dos soldados se espera que estejam preparados para arriscarem suas vidas.
Em alguns países, rituais humilhantes entre os recrutas têm sido tolerados e mesmo exaltados como um "ritual de passagem" que constrói o caráter e a resistência; enquanto em outros, o bullying sistemático dos postos inferiores, jovens ou recrutas mais fracos pode na verdade ser encorajado pela política militar, seja tacitamente ou abertamente. Também as forças armadas russas geralmente fazem com que candidatos mais velhos ou mais experientes abusem - com socos e pontapés - dos soldados mais fracos e menos experientes.
Características da vítima do Bullying
São pessoa com classe diferenciada, inteligência acima dos outros, estilo de roupa, modo de andar, penteado ou até mesmo o modo de falar; Se eles te veem e te acham diferente já vão logo procurar um defeito para te pertubar até você pedir para sair do colégio. Fazem com que as vítimas se sintam rejeitadas e excluídas da sociedade, isso ocorre quando a vítima é piscicologicamente frágil pois se a vítima for forte, ela ignora e acaba passando despercebido.
São pessoa com classe diferenciada, inteligência acima dos outros, estilo de roupa, modo de andar, penteado ou até mesmo o modo de falar; Se eles te veem e te acham diferente já vão logo procurar um defeito para te pertubar até você pedir para sair do colégio. Fazem com que as vítimas se sintam rejeitadas e excluídas da sociedade, isso ocorre quando a vítima é piscicologicamente frágil pois se a vítima for forte, ela ignora e acaba passando despercebido.
Aquecimento Global
Aquecimento Global
Entenda o aquecimento Global, Efeito Estufa, conseqüências, aumento da temperatura mundial,
degelo das calotas polares, gases poluentes, Protocolo de Kyoto, furacões, cliclones, desertos, clima, resumo
Entenda o aquecimento Global, Efeito Estufa, conseqüências, aumento da temperatura mundial,
degelo das calotas polares, gases poluentes, Protocolo de Kyoto, furacões, cliclones, desertos, clima, resumo
Poluição atmosférica: principal causa do aquecimento global quinta-feira, 5 de maio de 2011
A story of LOVE Confused I was a girl disillusioned with life, had a boyfriend who only made me suffer and cry all day, as he had no joy, for he was a thick and treated me very badly.
Finished high school, so I decided to go to college, I entered law school and met a really cool girl, who soon we became friends, inseparable friends. In the third week of class she introduced me to her cousin, when I saw no interest in it, even I was still dating. Time was passing and I was catching my friendship with him, talked every day, he gave me advice on a lot of things.
One day we went to watch the college game in a bar that day he told me he was in love with me, more than that I have a boyfriend, he also said he was dating ... I could not stop thinking about me and more those conversations of boys when they are in order ...
At the time did not care, I said we could not stay, because both we were dating. He said he just wanted me to know, nothing else. Said okay, then went off to college again, when I was out of the car and give a kiss on his face, he gave me a peck at the time I was shaking too, did not know what to do, the more I got off the car and held .
I left for my house, and what stuck in my head, sooner disappeared.
The following week we arranged to go to the movies, a galley, my boyfriend was away. So we went and he took his girlfriend. That day was horrible for me, I became very ill, and he also was a super boring situation, not knowing what to do. We do not talk that day, nothing!
Monday came and I went to college, he came to me, apologized for taking his girlfriend more than she had insisted to go along with us. I told him that he should not satisfactions for me, it was right to take her because she was nothing more, nothing less than his girlfriend. He turned to me and said I told you I'm falling for you, and I ended my relationship to be with you yesterday, fix your life now if you stay with me.
I was very glad he told me that, over the same time very confused because I did not know what to do.
I arrived at my house, and was soon end their relationship for two years. I acted entirely by emotion, the emotion that came over me, I was completely blinded by that boy. It took a few days, and I was with him, that for me was a magical moment, I felt accomplished. I thought I would change in an instant. But I was totally mistaken because I loved him and he just wanted to be with me, said it was new and at the stage of tanning. So I stayed with him, the more it killed me inside when he emerged alone purchases parties with friends, and was with several girls!
Always patient, I waited ... waited for the moment he arrived, and now I am the happiest woman in the world, we're boyfriend, almost married ... lol
I can say that I found my soul mate!!
Finished high school, so I decided to go to college, I entered law school and met a really cool girl, who soon we became friends, inseparable friends. In the third week of class she introduced me to her cousin, when I saw no interest in it, even I was still dating. Time was passing and I was catching my friendship with him, talked every day, he gave me advice on a lot of things.
One day we went to watch the college game in a bar that day he told me he was in love with me, more than that I have a boyfriend, he also said he was dating ... I could not stop thinking about me and more those conversations of boys when they are in order ...
At the time did not care, I said we could not stay, because both we were dating. He said he just wanted me to know, nothing else. Said okay, then went off to college again, when I was out of the car and give a kiss on his face, he gave me a peck at the time I was shaking too, did not know what to do, the more I got off the car and held .
I left for my house, and what stuck in my head, sooner disappeared.
The following week we arranged to go to the movies, a galley, my boyfriend was away. So we went and he took his girlfriend. That day was horrible for me, I became very ill, and he also was a super boring situation, not knowing what to do. We do not talk that day, nothing!
Monday came and I went to college, he came to me, apologized for taking his girlfriend more than she had insisted to go along with us. I told him that he should not satisfactions for me, it was right to take her because she was nothing more, nothing less than his girlfriend. He turned to me and said I told you I'm falling for you, and I ended my relationship to be with you yesterday, fix your life now if you stay with me.
I was very glad he told me that, over the same time very confused because I did not know what to do.
I arrived at my house, and was soon end their relationship for two years. I acted entirely by emotion, the emotion that came over me, I was completely blinded by that boy. It took a few days, and I was with him, that for me was a magical moment, I felt accomplished. I thought I would change in an instant. But I was totally mistaken because I loved him and he just wanted to be with me, said it was new and at the stage of tanning. So I stayed with him, the more it killed me inside when he emerged alone purchases parties with friends, and was with several girls!
Always patient, I waited ... waited for the moment he arrived, and now I am the happiest woman in the world, we're boyfriend, almost married ... lol
I can say that I found my soul mate!!
quarta-feira, 4 de maio de 2011
I was born in this spike in 1996. I have had good memories from there and have many friends who still lives her belt who miss the games ..... Of the moments q'll never get back that remained only in memory in lenbranças I really want to go back to her seat belt because there is q my place of truth because I have friends who I know will never leave me ....
It leaves a very young age of 6 went to bora Sapezal because my father had arranged her nail in four years I lived it hated this city coming to give vilhena a city I love I love this city and am living here five years have many friends ....... And here is where I will continue my studies terminal!!
It leaves a very young age of 6 went to bora Sapezal because my father had arranged her nail in four years I lived it hated this city coming to give vilhena a city I love I love this city and am living here five years have many friends ....... And here is where I will continue my studies terminal!!
12:00 fiu had lunch and studied for school late in the midwife came back at 5:30 I arrived I took my afternoon coffee and internet hacking on my blog I took my shower and went to my room I called for some 'Friends' and was converssando was 1:00 when I slept qualse 1:30!
quinta-feira, 28 de abril de 2011
I'm Pamela Klitzke, I'm 14 years old i study at Wilso Camargo since 2011 on 9 th grade Elementary, school my favorite subjets are Art, physical education now i live in Vilhena i have a big family my mother is Alaide Klitzke she works house. May father is Admilsom Oliveira he works trucker i am only chelo i have snter.
On monday,i get up at 10:00 i wash my tuth,have breakfast tide up my bedroom,do the house chares.
Then i watch tv,use the computer.I intend to be federal judge i don't like to aet vegetables but the worst in favt is fase people ny best friends are my farite king og music is coutry on mu frie.
Time i live wat ching marvies the bert in my opinoan is comedy The rest of the day is all the sone stay at hence in the moring go to school in afternomand at night stay wisthe my family.
domingo, 24 de abril de 2011
quarta-feira, 30 de março de 2011
God and the man
A man visits God and says "God, do you mind if I ask you a few questions?"
God says "No, ask me anything at all."
So the man says "God, you've been around for a very long time, so, for you, how long is a thousand years?"
God replies "For me, a thousand years is only five minutes."
The man then says "That's interesting God. And, for you, how much is a million dollars?"
God replies "For me, a million dollars is only five cents."
The man says "Really? Well then God, could you lend me five cents please?"
God looks at the man, smiles, and says "Of course my son. Just wait five minutes!"
God says "No, ask me anything at all."
So the man says "God, you've been around for a very long time, so, for you, how long is a thousand years?"
God replies "For me, a thousand years is only five minutes."
The man then says "That's interesting God. And, for you, how much is a million dollars?"
God replies "For me, a million dollars is only five cents."
The man says "Really? Well then God, could you lend me five cents please?"
God looks at the man, smiles, and says "Of course my son. Just wait five minutes!"
sábado, 26 de março de 2011
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